Some of the tools and templates that we use when mentoring are available for free download using the links below. The proper use and interpretation of the results from these tools are fully explained in The Solution for Marriages.

Permission is granted to pastors, mentors and counselors who have purchased The Solutions for Marriages to print and distribute copies of these resources for use in their individual mentoring or counseling practice, without alteration of any content or removal of copyright information.

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Chapter 2: The First Meeting with Your Mentees
Couple Consent Form for Marriage Mentoring – pdf
Couple Mentoring Plan – pdf
Emotional, Relational, Spiritual & Physical Questionnaire – Engaged – (premium content)
Emotional, Relational, Spiritual & Physical Questionnaire – Married – (premium content)

Chapter 4: Managing and Coping with Stress
Life Events and Stress – (premium content)

Chapter 6: Communication
Communication Style – pdf

Chapter 10: Financial Management
Monthly Income & Expenses – pdf
Questions to Discuss About Finances – (premium content)
Biblical Principles of Financial Management – (premium content)
Meaning of Money Assessment – (premium conten

Chapter 16: Breaking Free from Pornography
A Five-Step Process for Overcoming Pornography – pdf
Boundaries & Accountability for Mentees – (premium content)

Chapter 18: Family of Origin
Circumplex Model – (premium content)

Chapter 20: Handling Cultural Differences
Cultural Identity Map – pdf
Holiday Planning Matrix – (premium content)

Chapter 24: Biblical Roles of Husbands and Wives
Biblical Roles Worksheet – (premium content)

Chapter 26: Spiritual Beliefs & Developing a Personal Relationship with Christ
How to Have a Personal Relationship with Jesus Christ – pdf

Chapter 31: Remarriage
Questions Before Considering Remarriage – (premium content)

Supplemental Materials for Mentors
How to Develop a Lay Marriage Mentoring Ministry – pdf
Mentor Program Evaluation – pdf
Mentors Letter to Parents – (premium content)
Protecting Your Ministry From Spiritual Disaster – (premium content)
How Relationships are Impacted by Cohabitation – (premium content)
Topics to Discuss When Mentoring Military Couples – (premium content)
Certificate of Completion – (premium content)

Marriages and relationships are a lot like taking a flight across the country. Before you actually board your plane, no one knows how your flight will go! Not even the pilot! We all ASSUME it will be smooth flying and take it for granted that we will land safely. Like any flight`marriages can start out smooth and turbulence-free, but sometimes, unexpected turbulence or challenges can happen at any moment. It is important for you to remember that despite

The proper use and interpretation of the results from these tools are fully explained in The Marriage Journey. Permission is granted to pastors, mentors and counselors who have purchased The Marriage Journey to print and distribute copies of these resources for use in their individual mentoring or counseling practice, without alteration of any content or removal of copyright information.

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Communications
Communications Style Assessment
Roles, Responsibilities and Decision Making (Premium Content)
Marriage Expectations (Premium Content)

Holiday Planning
Holiday Planning Matrix (Premium Content)

Forgiveness
Two-Sides-of-Forgiveness-by-Bob-Stone
Forgiveness – The Path to Inner Freedom

Navigational Tools
Navigational Cards (Premium Content) purchase at Navigational Cards

Leading Marriage Indicator
Cohabitation vs. Marriage

Budgeting
Simple Budget – (Premium Content)