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Monday, September 26 2016
Flight Instructions for Your Budget

Steps to Making a Budget

Many people feel intimidated when they hear the word "budget."  However a budget is simply a plan for how to spend your money.

Transfer Ownership
​ Creating a spending plan begins with following some simple steps.  The first and most important step is to transfer ownership of possessions to God.  He is the owner of all things, and we are merely stewards of what He has entrusted to us.

​List Income and Expenses
The next step is to clearly see the income and expenses your have.  The Monthly Income and Expenses form available in the Premium Downloads is a good guide to use.  If you use the available form or if you use your own, you need to list everything you are spending now.  You can't create your spending plan unless you know exactly what your spending now and where is it going.

​I recommend couples establish a budget based on the greatest income only, if possible.  The lower income can be applied to one-time purchases, vacations, furniture, cars or to savings or debt reduction.  Many times the income is interrupted by illness, pregnancy, or a change in employment location.

​If total income exceeds total expenses, you only have to implement a method of budget control in your home.  However, if expenses exceed income (or more stringent controls in spending are desired), additional steps are necessary.  In that case, to reduce expenses, an analysis of each budget area is called for.  You will need to carefully exam each category of expenses and determine where you are overspending and what can be reduced.

​"Budget busters" are the large potential problem areas that can ruin a budget.  Failure to control even one of these problems can result in financial disaster in the home.  This area is evaluated by typical budget percentages for your family size.  Naturally these percentages are not absolutes and will vary with income and geographical location. 
Housing                    32%
Utilities                     10%
Food/Drink                11%
​Transportation           15%
Clothing                      3%
Health Care                 5%
Entertainment              5%
Insurance/Pension        9%
​All Other                    10% 

​ After you have completed the form you should now know what you are currently spending and where it is going.  Now using another copy of the same Monthly and Expense form, adjust the amounts to show what you want to be spending on these categories to ensure a budget where your income is equal or greater than your expenses.

On my next post I will provide information of a different type of spending plan, a Envelope System of Budgeting.

Father, we come to you in the name of Jesus. Thank you for the Holy Spirit that is present before us as we discuss our financial future together.  We thank You for bringing us to this place in our lives- a place of learning how to be better stewards. You have started a good work in us and will perform it until the day of Christ. We welcome You as we prepare to set up a budget that is pleasing to You and to each of us.

Thank you for giving us your heart concerning our budget. Thank you for blessing our finances, in Jesus name, Amen.  
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Thursday, September 01 2016
Flight Plan for Your Finances
Many people feel intimidated when they hear the word "budget".  However, a budget is simply a plan for how to spend money.  As a certified financial budget coach/counselor, I can tell you that finances can be a serious problem to a healthy marriage.  Creating a spending plan (budget) begins with following some simple steps.  The first and most important step is to transfer ownership of possessions to God.  He is the owner of all things, and we are merely stewards of what He has entrusted to us.

​ Having no budget usually results in unpredictable spending on things you don't need and possibly cannot afford.  Having a budget does not restrict your spending but just the opposite; it sets you free.  By putting God first in your budget with your tithe you open yourselves to receive God's blessings.

​Many couples think that obtaining more money will bring them happiness and achievement.  Nothing can be further from the truth!  Matthew 6:24 reveals the simple truth of money: No one can serve two masters.  Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other.  You cannot serve both God and money.

​Many couples delay seeking outside assistance on financial issues until the frustration level reaches the critical point.  Many churches have ministries to help.  Regardless of your financial status, seek God's wisdom through prayer and reach out to a professional for solid advice.  (Caution must be exercised in utilizing the organizations advertising Christian Debt Management, Financial Freedom, Debt Consolidation and more.  Research their credentials, licensure and any complaints filed through your State Department of Business and Professional Regulation.)  For those of you that understand the importance of having a budget and those of you that want to learn how to have a good working budget, beginning with my next post I am going to write series on how to create a budget and I will provide some downloadable forms to help with the process. 

​In our book "The Marriage Journey: A Flight Plan to Your Healthy Marriage" available in our book store, we devote chapter 6 to Managing God's Money.  In this chapter we provider numerous tips to help, to include thirteen biblical principles for sensible financial management.  We also have your inflight checklist and some exercises to assist you with your flight.  And don't forget our premium resource, our "Navigational Cards" I highlighted on a previous post available in the Resources section.

God, help us straighten out our financial problems.  We haven't been good stewards of your money.  Give us a new attitude and a new commitment to managing your finances wisely and responsibly.  If our problems are beyond our repair, help us find the way, Your way, to meet our obligations.  We place this need before You, knowing that You will guide us to a good solution.  Amen.
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Mae and Chuck began mentoring in home Bible studies and saw how their Christ-centered relationship was "different" from others.  Though far from "perfect," their marriage and commitment to Christ demonstrated a peace and happiness that intrigued other couples.  This became the opportunity to mentor other couples and to teach them to work at their relationship and grow their love for one another (with Christ) each day.


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